People in the Middle East have an intuitive understanding of this concept. The average businessman is in the office from around 10:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. -- and then he hurries home with his wife and children. After things cool off in the evening, they might be open for a couple extra hours -- or not, as they please. Iraqi men feel that life is too short to be spent away from their families.
When I worked at a prison in southern Iraq, the army hired a bunch of Iraqis to work as correctional officers and guards. When we informed them that they'd be working 12 hours a day, six days a week (only fair, right? that's what the soldiers were working -- if they were lucky), they revolted. Their response was essentially, "Uh, not just no . . .
hell no! You do realize we have wives and children, right?" They threatened to go on strike if we insisted on what they perceived to be ridiculously long hours, and when we played hardball, they acted on the threat. They ended up negotiating a sweet deal: They agreed to work 12-hour days, all right (with 2-hour lunch breaks, frequent smoke breaks, not to mention prayer breaks) . . . five days on, 10 days off, for a cool 60 hours every two weeks.
The average American takes a whopping 6 days of vacation a year, compared to European countries where every employee by law receives three to four weeks of vacation a year. Americans work more hours per week than any other nationality,
including the Japanese (oh, and incidentally, we have the least sex of any nation on earth, too), and what do we have to show for it? Untold trillions in consumer debt, broken marriages, millions on antidepressants, and some of the highest rates of preventable degenerative health conditions in the industrialized world. Not to mention countless people who are so broke, they can't even retire when they're too old to work.
We as a country need to learn how to slow the fuck down and maybe drink coffee and smoke for a few hours a day at the local coffee shop, like my European friends do. Life isn't that long, and it's passing most of us by. And for what? We don't live any longer than they do, and we definitely don't live any better.