It's not just the parents, 4PackGirl. Hardly a day goes by I don't see teens and even preteens immersed in their damn cell phones and ignoring their parents (I mean, 8-year-olds with cell phones . . . seriously?). Reason enough for me to decide that my kids aren't getting phones until they can pay for them themselves.
It amazes me when I go to bars or clubs to see entire tables of people not talking or dancing but texting. If you ask them what's up, the standard answer is, "We're waiting." Even if it's almost bar time, that's still the answer. "We're waiting." Waiting for what, nobody knows, because they're all immersed in their electronic universe instead of interacting with each other.
It astounds me even more to watch boyfriends and girlfriends -- husbands and wives! -- out on dates, completely ignoring each other. The other day, I walked up to a pair of girls in my university's coffee shop, who were sitting at a table, looking bored and texting, and I said, "This is exactly the problem I have with our modern culture. Here we have two friends who instead of talking to each other are texting other people!" Instead of giving me guff, as I expected, they laughed and admitted I was right.
That's what puzzles me about this modern phenomenon. Everyone I've brought it up with complains about it and deplores out isolating it is and how lonely they feel, yet everyone seems to keep doing it anyway. I've actually had girls admit to me that when they're walking down the sidewalk chattering on their phones, there's often no one on the other end -- they're just doing it so it looks like they have a social life and no one thinks they're uncool. (Because, you know, it would be humiliating to turn to the person walking next to you and say something like, um, "Hi, what's your name?")
Well, I've stopped putting up with it. If I'm hanging out time someone and they spend any significant amount of time on their cell phone instead of talking to me, I don't invite them back.
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