The number-one mistake men make when they get married is they get domesticated. Don't fall for that trap. Don't become predictable, or your wife will quickly get bored with you. In other words, never stop treating your wife like a girlfriend. To this day, people don't believe that my wife and I are married, but they have to admit we're the happiest married couple they've ever met.
The second piece of advice I have for you is never stop demanding -- yes, I said DEMANDING -- respect from your wife, and you both will be much happier. Of course, to demand respect, you must be worthy of respect, so always bear that in mind. But women are strange: They will constantly buck for control in the relationship, but the moment you give it to them, they begin to despise you. Never cede control over the relationship to your woman, and she will feel much more secure. Plus she will respect and admire you, which will feel very good for your ego and deepen your love for her. Learn how to maintain control without being controlling -- it's a delicate balancing act, but one that will pay off dividends down the road.
Avoid the two most common mistakes men make -- getting boring and ceding control, which are two sides of the same coin -- and you will be amazed at how rewarding marriage can be. Treat her like a girlfriend and demand respect, and she will adore you.
Oh, and congrulations. You have my warmest wishes for a long and prosperous future.
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