Ladies and Gentlemen. We have a few ladies around these sticks.
As for healthy -- I would have to say it's counter to my health. I'm sure it's self-inflicted, but sure feels like I got a target on my back at times. And that feeling (accurate or not) has me avoiding the site a lot. I know I'm not perfect and I try to make amends for my f-ups, but damn, it just feels like it piles on and on and on at times. Trying to improve can be so daunting when others make your efforts feel like you're emptying a gallon bucket of water trying to save the Titanic.
I am glad that it does help others. I didn't create the site for me so even if PH isn't my cup of tea anymore, it was never meant to be. I mainly wanted a place where fans could speak their mind without feeling "unsafe" like they'd be attacked for a potentially dumb thought/opinion. I wanted a place where we could educate and inform one another rather than display our insecurities by pushing others down to prop ourselves up on a pedestal to make ourselves feel better for a slight moment.
I wanted the mantra to be something like that saying of 'if I'm wrong, educate me. Don't belittle me' and lord knows I have failed that myself. Hopefully I can get some vacation time and maybe figure out a new direction for the website and maybe lure some unsuspecting humans on-board. If it comes to paying for advertising to get people here ... I will do that. Providing it is the right people, or at we at least have the right core of people here to guide them and welcome them.
Originally Posted by: Zero2Cool