seriously? i tried to have my kids for 10 years, dude. i've had more people see my vajayjay than most hookers. i've had several surgeries, umpteen tests, & finally had invitro to have my twins. i had a physical problem so no amount of 'relaxing, try not to think about it too much, if you forget about it, it'll just magically happen' wasn't gonna work for me. and doesn't work for the vast majority of women with fertility problems. good gawd man - that 'relax' deal was the same crap my mom heard 50 freakin years ago. get some new material.