it was good.
You do over think. It is the nature of your beast and what makes you so good at your job.

I see the little "what can go wrong" in every scenario. I can't help it. Insurance curse.

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just listen to them & they'll lead you to where they need you to be.
sometimes the thing to do is to just flat out say...i really don't know what to say or do to help you but i'm here if you need to talk, cry, scream, whatever.
you're doing just great kevin during a terrible time.
hang in there.

Hugs and love man. That's all you can give. Hugs and love. Same to you, too.

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Everyone already said what i would say.
Your being there for them means more then words. It lets them know they arn't alone in their pain. And letting Keiana see it, in my view, is good. It lets her see the REAL side of life and death. And allows her to learn how to grieve also.
There are no magic words you can say to your brother, but being there for him is what's most important. And if you don't know what to say, tell him exactly that! That you are at a loss for words, but are feeling the loss WITH them.
I'm truely sorry for your familie's loss Kevin.

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I'm so very sorry. We were almost there ourselves. Drs gave us a 15% chance of taking our son home. He was 2lbs at birth (dropped to 1 lb 13 oz at his lowest). We were blessed (and continue to be every day).

Nothing you can say will make things better. Just being there, someone they can cry on, says it for you.