I'm not married. If I were and my wife were to be diagnosed with cancer and did not want, or could not have sex, I'd be fine with it. I don't need sex to be happy. If her cancer were terminal, after she had passed, it would probably take a few years before I was able to be intimate with another woman again. I say probably because I could see it going either way, sooner or longer.

Doesn't say much about our society when we can atone for someone's perversion by saying 'his wife had cancer, so of course he was horny an sought sex elsewhere - it shows hes human'. Is that really what we've become? If so, that's weak and pathetic.

If you don't mind, I'd like to get back to the point I was making, instead of going off the deep end with your exaggeration in hopes to delude said point.



I am not an expert, but I don't think Breast Cancer negates having an intimate relationship with ones husband. If it does, I would expect the husband to lack the same intimacy his wife is. Brett did shave his head in support of Deanna, which is done often by loved ones of someone who has cancer.

I guess I just don't think it's too much to ask for your significant other to keep their dong in their pants while you're going through the hardest thing you've ever encountered in your life. Rather than MySpace'n and texting some broad sexts or pictures of your dong.

Hell, if you have a wife with breast cancer and want to show others you're human, tell a good looking woman you want to motor boat her boobies and send her pictures of your dong!!

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There was an error in my above post. It should have read "female mice," not "female rats."

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We still harp on this even tho Ted faxed the papers to trade for him?

And not to mention we HAD a shot at a Championship in 07, or you forget?

And he did get Moss and it lasted 3 games

i think you are full of shit!

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Can't say I'm surprised this is all you got to come back with.

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Hey, now. Constipation is a medical condition and nothing to be ashamed of.

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well, its just you come across so righteous and perfect.

this subject hits close to home for me. i know a couple that is married. They have been married for 25 years raised two kids.

Real happy couple, really in love with each other. 2 years ago, they are out riding on their motorcycles. They each had their own bike. As they are riding down the road, the wife, is run down by a delivery truck. The guy ran her over. broke her pelvis, shattered her spine, knocked out her teeth.

she has many problems to long to discuss. She can no longer have sex for one.

even though they won a multi-million dollar settlement, her husband can no longer have sex with her.

I worked on his computer, there was a ton of porn pop ups coming up all the time. kinda know where he's been on the internet.

do i think he is less of a man for doing it, no not really.

to me..sexting...is just not that horrible. and for you to outright say, i'd never do that when you never experienced something is unfair.

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i'd also like to add....

how would you feel if you coded on a project for 15 years. right when it is about to become the best piece of software in the industry, you are fired.

you are given a great severance package, and your office is immediately cleaned out.

and oh yeah, the people who fired you say, we don't want you working here anymore, and also, we do not want you working for our competition either, 'cause we said so.

we'll pay you to just ride your tractor and wave at people, and you be happy with that.

how does that sound to you?? pretty fair?

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When I was in and out of court 4 - 6 times a month for 4 months begging my ass off to stay out of jail, I wish I had you as my judge. It wouldn't have taken much effort at all to get you to let me slide on my responsibilities.


dhpackr for judge!!


I am sorry to hear about your friend.

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really.....that's not even a fair comparison.

were you in court for sexting???

if not, why the comparison?

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