You can make excuses for not living up to your potential. Or you can live up to your potential. We have a lot more choice in this life than we realize.
"all_about_da_packers" wrote:
I don't think it's quite the either/or proposition you are making it out to be.
Yes there is potential for upward mobility, I will not deny that. But that potential is quite limited when you are poor; the resources at your disposal are marginal. For every 1 person who achieves the "American Dream" there are hundreds, if not thousands, for whom that dream never materializes*. There is a stigma with being poor, one that assumes outrageous level of incompetence that somehow confine the poor to their conditions. I will not be so naive to claim that there are poor people who are hampered by their own inability to do much of anything, but I still think many many more have very limited avenues to escape their chronic poverty.
Much like Martin Luther King Jr. (whose writings I am a huge fan of) once said, it's hard to pull yourself up by your own bootstraps when you have no boots. I think that very much applies, and that there are tremendous impediments to attaining boots, so to speak, when you do not have them in the first place.
* The academic Kathleen Stewart, whose views I very much agree with, wrote a (IMO) marvelous piece -
Real American Dreams (can be nightmares) - which shows that for many who achieve the American Dream, there are many more who do not.
"zombieslayer" wrote: