lol I told her what you said Rourke, she laughed and said 'if i wasn't with Erik I would come in a heartbeat!' ... I can't say I was fully expecting that response.
I came across another road block. Shawano County is one of poorest organizations to deal with as a man in my experience. They offer me no help at all. I'm a male, I'm instantly the bad guy somehow.
Scenario ... I got a court order (August '09) to be able to see Becca every other weekend. If the mom or I deviate from it, it's reported as contempt and jail time ensues. If I move to Colorado, that would be hard to uphold on both our ends.
I can't talk to Becca's mom because on fathers day she physically assaulted me and went to jail for a few hours until she was bailed out. So I can't just say 'hey gotta talk to you bout something'.
So, Shawano tells me I can move outside of the 150 mile area, but Becca's mom can submit objection to the move within 60 days of the court being notified of my new address. To which I would be responsible for the costs of transportation for Becca to and from my new residence to uphold the court order. I tried telling the lady it was nearly 1,000 mile move and it was time sensitive. She didn't care. I'm really getting sick of this crap ... women want so many god damn rights, but yet are viewed as ones who can't do any wrong. What's so hard about changing the court order for me to get her for the summer and be responsible for transportation that way?
I was hoping to have this all done and moved over there around August 15th, then I just found out Keiana's first day of school would be August 16th.
My friends tell me I should write a book about my life, and put it in the fiction section because no one would believe it. I'm starting to think they were on to something.
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