Katherine: I think I like Miriam. That was a great response.
me: I agree. The woman answers her own question.
Katherine: Yes, she does. She can't deal with the husband wearing women's clothes. What is there to help with? He's distant? Well, she just told him that what he was doing was wrong, disgusting, and disturbing and threatened to leave him. If it's something that's helping this "depression" of his, obviously he enjoys it. Therefore, she's severely insulting him. Now she's surprised when he's a bit miffed? It's not surprising he kept it secret from her previously, considering her reaction.