So true. You guys know me pretty well. And when i am quiet, people think there HAS to be something wrong. And often times there is.
But if i'm just sitting and "thinking", that can be misread. Usually, people will question you because they do care if you are ok or not.
If they are around you alot, they pretty much see what you are like "normally". Then if you have a day where you are not like that, they arn't sure how to react to you. Thus, they question you.
Now.....if there really IS nothing wrong with you, that you are JUST thinking, you wouldn't get mad about people questioning you. You'd understand that they just don't know how to take you. So maybe something IS bothering you, and you just arn't sure how to deal with it.
You CAN "think too much." Fact is, we are only in control of so much of what goes on in our lives. You can say "I'm gonna cross the street" and you start across, and some dummy not looking hits you with his car. (Happened to me) In fact, anything you plan can be changed in an instant.
So it's ok to think, but not to worry about all of the possibilities. Because in the end, what will thinking about all those strange things get you? Maybe depressed or with an ulcer.
I have thought about the fact that we are all just stuck on the side of a huge spinning ball, which if gravity suddenly went away, we'd all fly off into space. But i'm not going to worry about it. It COULD happen. But so what? Do i have any control over weird things happening?