Heh. You completely misunderstood my post.

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Me? NEVER!!!!

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i've found porn on my computer while cleaning up cookies , an editing my registry that were not mine. I know my wife browses sites, I don't think she is cheating, it doesn't bother me, 'cause I know I'm the best she eva had and she adores me.

I also have and probably will after new years coded out some porno websites. its easy money, i work from home, and my wifey doesn't mind the extra cash.

she knows i do it, she sees the crap I program, its pretty weird stuff, but its cash, and cash buys freedoms in America.

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Porn only provides new ideas for the bedroom. I don't remember anyone leaving their spouse in favor of porn. I've always felt porn was fairly over rated. The real thing is easier to get than a good porn flick. Less damaging to your PC too!

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It's ok Zero. I don't expect you to get my literary references.

Thought crimes were something that George Orwell discussed in his book 1984. It's where you can be arrested for thinking the wrong thing. Of course as an American, I'm VERY much against thought crimes being real crimes and would go as far as saying that if thought crimes became illegal, the government immediately needs to be overthrown in a bloody as hell coup.

So yes, my wife has porn on her computer and it doesn't involve me. She has her fantasies that don't involve me. I'm fine with that. She's human. She's allowed to think and fantasize all she wants.

Where we draw the line is physical contact. Sitting at home and dreaming of fucking someone else doesn't bother me one bit. Going to a bar, picking up a stranger, and fucking him, that's a problem.

Even sexting doesn't bother me but it has to be with someone that is not going to be a stalker. They have to understand that it's fantasy and that's it. It stops at sexting. Nothing more. No physical contact.

Sexting is the new American safe sex fantasy. You get to fantasize about doing things with someone else without the risk of disease, pregnancy, etc. I have no problem with it whatsoever. I've been sexted before by different women. I've also received explicit emails with pics and all. I've never sent as I do want to run for Congress one day and I already have enough skeletons in the closet.

I know people will look at this and think we're extreme. No. I take it the other way. I see everyone else as prudes. Teens sext all the time and I think it's a good thing. Why can't adults do it?

Everyone who's not asexual thinks about sex. Porn/sexting = safe sex. I have no problem with either of them.

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I know what you mean. I dated a girl who didn't physically cheat on this guy, with another guy, but she felt just as bad. She said that was the closest she came to cheating on him, was a lot of emails, text messages and she said she "mind" cheated on him and she didn't know why.

I tried telling her it doesn't matter where you build your appetite as long as you always come home for dinner.

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WTF?


(ordering the nurse to take zombieslayer's temperature)

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LOL!
Let's put it this way.......i have seen many "porn Women" that have been on TV telling their tale of how they got involved in it. And all of them said they were raped and abused.
I'm sure not all girls in it are abused, but the majority did not have "normal" upbringing, where they were taught to respect their own bodies.

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And of course the media tends to portray the norm instead of the most extreme and sensational of cases. 😛

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rourke = media
eh?