I work with a gay guy. He just came off vacation. He mumbles a lot, and I'm hard of hearing, but apparently he ran into trouble with his current lover because he went to a gay bar while his current lover was with his wife on vacation in the Bahamas,(my co-worker) met a guy with a girl and the three of them went to the sack. The current lover knows the new lover and found out about the whole thing in some gay bar they both frequent.
My co-worker is way bent out of shape because the current lover is accusing him of "switching teams", as there was a female involved in that encounter, though my co-worker assures me that he never "touched the bitch", not to mention the part about the current lover being married to a female.
I learned all of this through asking how his vacation went. There seems to be a lot of drama and complications in his life. He's a great worker, though, so as I have said, I don't care where his pee-pee goes or who he marries, etc. He knows I give a shit about him, that's why he shares. I do kid him constantly about his effeminism- he runs like the worst girl ever, for example, but he knows I have his back, regarding the zealots and rednecks, etc.
...Plus he's a kind person. I dig kind people, regardless of "orientation". Like I said, life is complicated. He can marry whoever he wants, imo, though I wouldn't recommend his so-called current gay lover that is already married, but that's just me.
I would (far more) prefer to listen to his silly-assed shit over Dakota's silly assed shit, as he lacks malice. He's just gay.
...And some of you wonder why I like working at the Home Depot, he he he . These things never came up in the Corps 😆