note: being catholic does not mean you are thoroughly versed in what I believe in. I too was brought up catholic. Went to catholic grades school and high school. It drove me away.
The catholic church teaches guilt and getting to heaven (or place in heaven) on acts. It also does not encourage studying the bible (I should say didn't as I have heard things are changing since they are losing so many parishinars).
Let me ask you as question and then give you an analogy of getting to heaven.
If I offer you a gift. Do you not have to accept it to enjoy the reward it brings?
God is Just. He has simply said that in order to get to heaven, you must accept what his son did for you (die so your sins may beforgiven). That is the gift. The reward is heaven. the consequences is seperation. He is not being mean. It is our decision to accept or refuse his gift so it is our decision should we have eternal seperation.
I hear your argument alot. (
if there is truly a "God" who is so narcissistic that he would send me to a place of eternal suffering for not believing in him rather than judge me for being a genuinely kind, caring and charitable person who always seeks to do the right thing for people in his life...then i want nothing to do with him/her/it anyway. )
Imagine your dad is a Judge in the local court. He loves you. But one day you end up in front of him for speeding. The fine is $500 or 30 days in jail.
He knows you don't have the money. But as a Judge, he must find you guilty of speeding and order you to pay or spend time in jail. If he just lets you off the hook he is not being just in his position.
After giving you your chioces and knowing you yourself cannot pay the fine, he then takes off his robe, comes and stands next to you and offers to pay the court for you.
You have a choice. Accept his generousity or suffer the consequences.
God is standing next to all of us offering to pay for our eternal sins. All we have to do is accept. accept that Jesus died for us so we can have eternal salvation.
un-freakin'-believable. so doing "The Right Thing" just because it is the right thing is foreign or counter-intuitive to you? if that is the case i truly do pity you then. i would never say this about anybody...but my god...what a bleak outlook on life. there is not an evil person in my immediate life, and also not a single religious one (outside of my family). and from all the news you must not be reading...accountability to a "God" is certainly not very effective from keeping people from murdering each other. especially when nobody can agree on whose "God" is the real "God".Where did I say it was counter intuitive to me? Stop putting words into my mouth. You are very adept at letting me know what I think and how I view myself compared to others....unfortunately you are very mistaken.
What in your opinion makes people care to do the right thing? How are we different from animals? What causes us to have a conscious? Most people do the right thing because that is what was taught to them from their parents. as they get older they are influenced by their peers and cernters of influence. As more people (IMO) get away from their religious bases, their kids have less of a moral compass.
You have a moral compass and I will assume it is pretty decent. Didn't you say your parents had religious background? hmmm .
If a parent steals, does drugs, and kills, what regard for life does the child have? If the parent reads the bible and it teaches the golden rule then what does the child learn?
Religious Zealots are not an accurate representations of religion and you know it. They take on section of thier belief and do not consider it in context. That being said, I would still say that more crime is committed by those without a belief than those that have one.
As far as your personal view, I would enjoy watching a packer game and I would still hang out with you even if we did talk religion. In my opinion, you are worthy of hanging out with even with your views. However, apparently I am not worthy of your presence because of mine.
So who is really being self rightous?