it doesn't make it ok in any way shape or form. however, as a woman, if i dress in a certain manner, i'm trying to get a certain reaction. every woman knows this & uses it to their advantage. trust me.

i'm a married mother of twins. the boys & i went to the grocery store yesterday & this guy who works there starts talking to us in the check out line. he ended up helping us out to my car with the groceries. i thought nothing of it. then i find out that this same guy has some sort of fetish with married blondes & (stupid me) was apparently hitting on me. i wasn't dressed in anything sexy or revealing, had my wedding rings on, my kids with me, & this guy STILL hit on me.

my conclusion...SOME guys are pigs. not ALL guys - just some. but that's part of why this is such a confusing issue for me. we can only guess that if she had dressed in bulky sweats with no make up what the outcome might have been.

4Pack - a woman with a nice body can be sexy wearing anything, including sweats and a t-shirt.

Sometimes dressing up looks like she's trying too hard and that's actually a turn off. I often like it best when the Mrs. just wears a dress and a decent top. Not dressed up. Not dressed down.

Every guy is different though.

Alas, I'm taking this off topic again.

Bigfog - to a point. I'll make an extreme example.

If you go down a ghetto wearing tons of bling that's actually worth something vs a guy who's wearing normal clothes, take a random guess who is more likely to get robbed.

I'm in one of the worst parts of Oakland at least once a month as I have personal business there. I dress like a normal dude. Walk with a purpose, and don't go looking for trouble. I'm actually friendly, but walk like I'm a busy man. People nod and say "hi." I've yet to encounter a problem.

To say a woman was asking for it may be harsh, but we live in the real world. Putting yourself in a bad situation is stupid. If you're a woman going into a man's locker room, it's in your best interest to wear a business suit. Just like I'm not going to be flashing gold and staring people down when I'm in the ghetto. Common sense.

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Couldn't say it any better then you did, Zombie.
If a female reporter dresses somewhat "sexy", you shouldn't be surprised if she gets attention. Some of it negative.
I myself don't find the woamn attractive. Yes, she has big boobs. But that's about it.
Plus, if you ever watched latino TV, you'd see they are constantly putting beautiful women dressed to "get attention".
So as was said, the lady wasn't even bothered by whatever happened. So WHY the big stink? If it didn't bother her, why should it bother someone else? Was there some unatractive woman in there that complained....maybe because she didn't get any attention? I don't know the answer, just throwing it out there.
But the "P.C. Police" were out in full force it seems.

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