I've heard the same thing. I know I come across as an asshole, but I actually do listen to what women say. I've heard quite a few complain about men taking forever to cum.

OK, here's a non-scientific study. Ask people at your sex store what sells. They'll tell you lube. Also, I'm a big reader of women's sex guides. A lot of them say the same thing - "you can never have too much lube."

I haven't heard too many women complain about men cumming too fast. The complaints I hear generally involve guys taking too long.

Reminds me of that movie Poetic Justice with Janet Jackson. The guy's taking forever to cum and the chick looks up and rolls her eyes.

Like I said, not a scientific study. I'm just repeating what I've heard. I'd love to see a study of women interviewed which is a bigger complaint - guys cumming too soon or taking too long. I'll bet $100 with 3 to 1 odds the bigger complaint would be the latter.

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hearing a few people ( from the same gender that is notorious for 'faking it' ) say " I like quick wham bam thank you ma'am sex" isn't particularly convincing to me (remember, they're good at faking it, aka lying).

We have women on this board...c'mon, chime in!

whoa - just noticed this thread. interesting perspective. i'm not sure how to chime in without revealing too much. let's just say i've never used lube in my life. 😉

never having used lube could just mean you're dealing with three pump chumps 🙂

ha - again with the not trying to reveal too much. ummm ok - the hell with it. done the whole 'all night long' thing many times & had some quickies in my time also - no lube necessary.

why do i feel like i'm on a sex site?? sheesh - the pressure!!!

because you're on a site with a number of men. Every topic devolves to sex, farting, or beer at some point.

Every other board on the planet, no matter what the topic, it ends up going to Hitler and Nazis.

Except PH. No matter the topic, it goes to sex. Yet another reason I'd rather be here. :cyclopsani:

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If a guy comes too fast, at least it's still an ego stroke for the woman. If the guy takes forever or doesn't come at all, it's like an insult to them and the insecurities start coming out.

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