In 1971 or 1972, my dad reflected with me about his service in Korea, and how he served as an Battery Commander of 155 howitzers. He told me that one of his fellow Commanders by the name of Al Gray and him were best of friends in that conflict, and what a hard-charging Marine Al was. I remember my dad reflecting upon how Al would gruffly dismiss him (my dad) as a bit of a "dilettante" for his ivy-league education, and called him the "barrister" for having gone to law school. He said that AL would make an outstanding Commandant of the Marine Corps, but would never get there, as he was pure Marine rifleman, and had a total disregard for the political "debutantes" in the puzzle palace and its environs (Pentagon and D.C.). Two years later, I'm a Marine. Year after that I forgot to duck during the Mayaguez "Incident" in Cambodia. Year after that, my little brother also joined the Corps. Al Gray was my little brother's Commanding General in the 3rd Mardiv on Okinawa. Flash forward 4 more years. My brother gets out of the Marines, I'm still in. Now I'm in the 2nd MarDiv and Al Gray is my Commanding General. The world is a truly small place... The Corps is small by other service standards, but we are still talking over I think at the time 192,000 men. I was in the 1st Bn 8th Marines. We had a rather significant problem in Beirut, again I forgot to duck, yada, yada yada... We get back from Beirut, land at Morehead City, NC. Al Gray is there to meet us getting off the ship. Keep in mind I have never met him in my life. I work the courage up to break out of ranks and introduce myself and reflect upon his service with my dad and what my dad had said about him 10 years prior. I walk up to him and start to salute him. He puts his hand out instead of saluting. He says "Welcome home, David." "I called your dad and told him you were alive on the night it happened... why do you keep forgetting to duck, and why the hell did your brother leave our Corps?" I was absolutely flattened. I said to him, (I couldn't think of anything else) "Sir, my brother served under you in the 3rd MarDiv" He says.. "I know, I pinned a Navy Achievement Medal on him." I knew, of course, about that medal, but my brother swears Gen. Gray gave no indication of acknowledgement of him when he did it. General Gray had followed my career just like my father had followed his. To this day I do not know how he knew who I was when I approached him. By the way, who do reckon' became what most Marines recognize as the best Commandant the Marine Corps ever had? Years later he gave me his phone number, and I used it. On my dad's 80th birthday we had a little surprise for my old man. The guest of Honor was the former Commandant of the United States Marine Corps ... General Alfred P. Gray. It was like they were battery commanders again. God, I love the Corps.