Sorry to hear about your loss, I watched a family member destroy his life for many years, but he luckily survived it but is in a constant fight to stay clean.
I have found out the last couple of weeks that the people on this site are true, caring people, their support will be there for you as well as mine.
I wish you and your family the strength to get through this very low point in your lives.
I was addicted to The Hokey Pokey, but I turned myself around!