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Offline Cheesey  
#16 Posted : Wednesday, April 8, 2009 8:19:20 PM(UTC)
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Yes Alan it is hell, and it is frustrating to know I cant do anything to fix it.

Its even worse when I try to make things better when he is with me by getting 2 ramps donated or other things donated and put in...

the ex wife yells and cusses me out because I am trying to take advantage of his condition..She thinks I should have to pay for anything he needs because I do not pay support.......well I only pay 30 a week.

I figure since I can't really afford to get the more expensive things he needs when with me,there are programs out there to HELP people such as my self..Why not use it? She doesnt see it that way..I should be a "man" and provide all the $$ needed for him myself



Long story short my ex was a cheater thats why she is the ex..

The 2 kids I always thought were mine biologically are not..Found that out few years after the divorce.. I decided to take her to court over the paternity and fought the fact was paying 200$ a week for kids not mine.

I ended up getting it reduced to the 30 a week, because JJ was able to get ssi from the state, and it off set my support..So every since then she has bashed me every chance she can get because I do not "pay support"

Boy....isn't THAT a slap in the face???
She screws around, gets pregnant.......you "man up" and be the kid's Daddy, and she has the nerve to pull that crap.
Plus, as you stated, there are programs out there that are there specificly to help people. Thats why they are there! After all, it's not like you don't have a very valid reason to do so!
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#17 Posted : Wednesday, April 8, 2009 8:40:32 PM(UTC)
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you should have heard her when I won that Tv from the hog for submitting my football fantasy..
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#18 Posted : Wednesday, April 8, 2009 9:52:03 PM(UTC)
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Great read Longtime. Sadly, I did not know of your story.. I empathize.

I also empathize with how you and your ex ended up.. Two things I'm more passionate about than anything else.. Is broken homes and children. And you have both of them, unfortunately. My thoughts and prayers go to you my friend.
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#19 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 11:30:15 AM(UTC)
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Great read Longtime. Sadly, I did not know of your story.. I empathize.

I also empathize with how you and your ex ended up.. Two things I'm more passionate about than anything else.. Is broken homes and children. And you have both of them, unfortunately. My thoughts and prayers go to you my friend.


TY :)
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#20 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 2:23:28 PM(UTC)
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you should have heard her when I won that Tv from the hog for submitting my football fantasy..

You should have got a used TV, cut it in half with a chain saw, and said "Here's your half!" :thumbleft:
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#21 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 2:36:24 PM(UTC)
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Great read LT and ty for doing it. I know at times it seems like we don't get along but i respect your opinions on things. I feel like you Batman and i'm the Joker. I would be nothing on here without you so please keep up the good work.

I think thats awesome what your doing for the kids, I always want to do it but i think i would be to emotional for them. When it comes to your son best wishes for him and i have no problem hearing about him. I think alot on here would be in agreement that we are family on this site.


So once again thanks for the read and doing it :)



You fell like me Batman? What ya doing feeling Batman up?

Dont worry if I was to go away, there are plenty here that would fill my void for your love :P
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#22 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 2:36:37 PM(UTC)
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you should have heard her when I won that Tv from the hog for submitting my football fantasy..

How long did it take you to drink all that Miller Lite?
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#23 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 6:12:09 PM(UTC)
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you should have heard her when I won that Tv from the hog for submitting my football fantasy..

How long did it take you to drink all that Miller Lite?


not to long was only 12 cases :P

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#24 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 6:16:35 PM(UTC)
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What a beautiful sight. That's a good weekend for Tromadz.
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#25 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 10:40:20 PM(UTC)
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great job, jim. i already knew pretty much everything so at least you haven't been "closed off" with me. ;) lol. i think of you & JJ often. usually when my twins are out running around, i think how grateful i am that they are healthy. then inevitably my thoughts turn to JJ. please send him some hugs from me, ok?

your ex is an ungrateful lying bitch...oops did i say that out loud? :D
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#26 Posted : Thursday, April 9, 2009 11:05:33 PM(UTC)
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great job, jim. i already knew pretty much everything so at least you haven't been "closed off" with me. ;) lol. i think of you & JJ often. usually when my twins are out running around, i think how grateful i am that they are healthy. then inevitably my thoughts turn to JJ. please send him some hugs from me, ok?

your ex is an ungrateful lying bitch...oops did i say that out loud? :D


Well your not the 1st to say that and not the last LOL

In fact during one of the paternity hearings in the jury chambers she was going on a rant about how if I stopped paying support I better be there all the time to help out..

one of the guardian ad litems looked at her and said..

90% of guys he knows would have been gone years ago..He has stuck by you even tho he knew you cheated not once but twice..You do not have to worry about him being there for the kids..

He also said that he was mad at her and how she has this nasty attitude towards me, she should be thankful

Once he was done I stood up and clapped and told him thank you..

Was waiting for years for someone else to tell her to her face how she screwed up..

I was doing it for years but she never heard me


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#27 Posted : Friday, April 10, 2009 9:59:19 AM(UTC)
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Longtime.. have you PM'd Porky or Wils.. which is up next?

Thanks.
I think when there's enough will and aggression, there's no shortage of talent either.

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#28 Posted : Friday, April 10, 2009 1:36:28 PM(UTC)
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#29 Posted : Friday, April 10, 2009 8:59:42 PM(UTC)
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great job, jim. i already knew pretty much everything so at least you haven't been "closed off" with me. ;) lol. i think of you & JJ often. usually when my twins are out running around, i think how grateful i am that they are healthy. then inevitably my thoughts turn to JJ. please send him some hugs from me, ok?

your ex is an ungrateful lying bitch...oops did i say that out loud? :D


Well your not the 1st to say that and not the last LOL

In fact during one of the paternity hearings in the jury chambers she was going on a rant about how if I stopped paying support I better be there all the time to help out..

one of the guardian ad litems looked at her and said..

90% of guys he knows would have been gone years ago..He has stuck by you even tho he knew you cheated not once but twice..You do not have to worry about him being there for the kids..

He also said that he was mad at her and how she has this nasty attitude towards me, she should be thankful

Once he was done I stood up and clapped and told him thank you..

Was waiting for years for someone else to tell her to her face how she screwed up..

I was doing it for years but she never heard me


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Nice! lol

A few opinions.. Humble, but accurate.. =P

First, one of the biggest problems I have with separated parents is the bad mouthing and trashing that the kids hear. Which is the LAST thing you, as a loving parent, want to do... Trust me. As a kid growing up in a broken home(s), I experienced this. And it has driven a big wedge in my relationship with my mother. We all make mistakes, and sometimes, even unfortunate, it's the best to separate for the better sake of ALL parties involved.. But that's no stinkin' excuse for one parent to degrade/bad mouth/trash the other. ESPECIALLY to the kids or in their presence. You are just ASKING for a messed up child in the future.

I was gonna post another opinion, but it had nothing to do with the topic, so I'll just leave it at this.. lol
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#30 Posted : Saturday, April 11, 2009 2:48:57 AM(UTC)
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I didn't come from a broken home, yet I couldn't agree with you more, Formo. For most of my life, I bought into my mother's bitching about my father, and grew up essentially hating my father's guts. It wasn't for quite a few years after I left home that I was able to get a more objective picture of the situation. Then I realized I had bought into a one-sided bucket of slop. Regardless of whether the parents are together or not, they should never bitch about each other in front of the children, and NEVER bitch to the children a bout each other. To do is so is so caustic to the children's psyche and to their relationship with their parents, the most precious connection they have.

I refuse to bitch about my wife in front of my kids.
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